These questions make for very good conversation and they should drive us to the Bible for answers. That being said, it is very important to understand that the diversity of the spiritual gifts should be celebrated.
As you survey the people among the body of believers you attend (if you are attending church), take joy in the way God brings these people together and uniquely gifts us all. We are a tapestry by design and it is in this diversity that the beauty of God and his Church is seen.
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